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{{short description|Egyptian murderer (born 1968)}}
{{Infobox criminal
| image_name        = 
| name              = Omaima Aree Nelson
| image_size        = 
| image_caption     = 
| birth_date        = {{Birth year and age|1968}}
| birth_place       = [[Cairo]], [[United Arab Republic|Egypt]]
| alias             = Omayma Aref Stainbrook<ref>{{Cite web |last=Dizon |first=Lily |date=February 22, 1992 |title=Woman Pleads Not Guilty in Dismemberment Case : Courts: Defendant's preliminary hearing is set for April 10. Prosecutors are not seeking the death penalty. |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1992-02-22-me-2195-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref>
| conviction        = [[Murder in California law|Second-degree murder]]
| conviction_penalty = 27 years to [[life in prison]]
| conviction_status = [[Imprisoned]]
| imprisoned        = [[California Institution for Women]]
| occupation        = Former model, nanny
| spouse            = Roger Stainbrook (divorced)
| parents           = 
| children          = 
| native_name       = أميمة عارف
| birth_name        = Omaima Aref
| nationality       = Egyptian<ref>{{Cite news |last=Cekola |first=Anna |date=April 11, 1892 |title=Nelson must stand trial tor murder |work=The Newsport Beach Pilot |pages=1}}</ref>
}}
'''Omaima Aree Nelson''' ({{Lang-ar|أميمة عارف}}; born 1968) is an Egyptian murderer. She was convicted of the 1991 murder of her partner Bill Nelson, for which she was sentenced to life imprisonment in 1992. Her case made international headlines due to allegations of [[BDSM|bondage sex]], [[decapitation]], [[castration]] and [[Human cannibalism|cannibalism]].

==Background==

=== Early life ===
Omaima Aree Nelson was born and raised as one of 16 children in Cairo, Egypt. There are conflicting reports about her age, although most sources indicate that she was born in 1968. At age six, she underwent [[Religious views on female genital mutilation|customary]] [[Female genital mutilation in Egypt|female circumcision]] at the wish of her father. She and two sisters would live with her mother in an impoverished part of the city near the local [[City of the Dead (Cairo)|necropolis]].<ref name=":0">{{Cite news |last=Basheda |first=Lori Ann |date=December 7, 1991 |title=Victim, suspect 'lovey dovey' before murder |url=https://archive.newportbeachlibrary.org/NBPL/0/edoc/1307998/1991-12-07%20-%20Orange%20Coast%20Pilot.pdf |work=[[Daily Pilot|Newport Beach Pilot]] |pages=A1–A12}}</ref><ref name=":1">{{Cite news |date=December 1, 1992 |title=Was Woman Abuse Victim or Vicious Killer? |url=https://newspaperarchive.com/santa-ana-orange-county-register-dec-01-1992-p-27/ |work=[[The Orange County Register|Santa Ana Orange County Register]] |pages=27}}</ref>

=== Life in the U.S. ===
In 1986, she immigrated to the United States following her marriage to an American citizen, Roger Stainbrook, whom she subsequently divorced. She lived primarily in [[Southern California]], working as a student nanny and later also getting a job as a model at [[South Coast Plaza]] in [[Costa Mesa, California|Costa Mesa]].<ref name=":1" /> She would often engage in simultaneous relationships with different men and frequented bars to solicit older men for sex under the names Ishta or Nadia, for which [[San Bernardino County, California|San Bernadino]] prosecutors called her "almost hooker-like".<ref name=":4">{{Cite web |last=Weikel |first=Dan |date=1991-12-06 |title=Gruesome O.C. Slaying Victim Lived Risky Life |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-12-06-mn-649-story.html |access-date=2024-08-05 |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref>

She obtained a driver's license in 1989 and was noted for 12 traffic violations, including the theft of a car leased by a boyfriend, 38-year-old Jack Huston, in [[Chino, California|Chino]].<ref name="Omaima Aree Nelson, ex-model who killed and ate her husband, is now seeking parole">{{cite news|url=https://www.cbsnews.com/news/omaima-aree-nelson-ex-model-who-killed-and-ate-her-husband-is-now-seeking-parole/ |title=Omaima Aree Nelson, ex-model who killed and ate her husband, is now seeking parole |publisher=CBS |date=September 30, 2011 |access-date=October 9, 2012|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120224235815/http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/04/omaima-nelson-woman-who-k_n_994906.html|archive-date=2012-02-24|url-status=live}}</ref><ref name=":4" /> In November 1990, 61-year-old Robert Hannson, a resident of [[Huntington Beach, California|Huntington Beach]], accused her of attempted robbery for pointing a gun at him while he was tied up during a consensual bondage session but no official charges were filed to the [[Orange County Sheriff's Department]]. Another boyfriend, Richard Gray, accused Omaima of putting a knife to his throat during their relationship, which she later claimed occurred consensually during a sex game. She was also reported for the 1989 assault on a female security guard who had caught her shoplifting in a [[Bluenotes|Thrifty's]] store by biting her breast, which resulted in a charge of [[Battery (crime)|battery]].<ref name=":5">{{Cite news |last=Cekola |first=Anna |date=April 11, 1992 |title=Nelson must stand trial tor murder |url=https://archive.newportbeachlibrary.org/NBPL/0/edoc/1316581/1992-04-11%20-%20Orange%20Coast%20Pilot.pdf |work=The Newsport Beach Pilot |pages=1}}</ref><ref name="Woman's Trial Begins in Murder, Dismemberment" /><ref>{{Cite web |last=Billiter |first=Bill |date=February 1, 1992 |title=New Charges Filed Against Suspect in Grisly Murder: Crime: Complaint alleges that woman accused of killing and dismembering her husband imprisoned, tried to rob and assaulted another local man. |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1992-02-01-me-1063-story.html |access-date=2024-08-04 |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref><ref name=":6">{{Cite news |last=Basheda |first=Lori Ann |date=December 16, 1992 |title=Omaima Nelson answers to prosecutors: Defendant admits lying to police; questioned about tying up former boyfriends |url=https://archive.newportbeachlibrary.org/NBPL/0/edoc/1316798/1992-12-15%20-%20Orange%20Coast%20Pilot.pdf |work=Newport Beach Pilot |pages=4}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web |last=Serna |first=Joseph |date=2011-10-06 |title=Woman who ate portion of murdered husband's remains denied parole |url=https://www.latimes.com/socal/daily-pilot/news/columns/tn-dpt-1006-nelson-20111005-story.html |access-date= |website=Daily Pilot |language=en-US}}</ref>

In October 1991, aged 23, she met William Edwin "Bill" Nelson while playing pool at a bar in [[Huntington Beach, California|Huntington Beach]]. Nelson was 56-year-old at the time, worked as a pilot in [[Laredo, Texas]], and lived in Costa Mesa as a computer programmer, having been released the same year after serving four years in prison for attempting to smuggle 100 tons of marijuana from [[Mexico]] through his job.<ref name=":0" /><ref>{{Cite web |last= |first= |date=1991-12-12 |title=Woman Denies Dismemberment Killing of Husband |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-12-12-mn-336-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> Omaima said that Nelson proposed to her two days later.<ref name=":10">{{Cite web |last=Lichtblau |first=Eric |date=1991-12-08 |title=Woman Denies Slaying Her Lover : Killing: Omayma Aref Nelson, accused of dismembering man, says she is a victim of circumstance |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-12-08-mn-273-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref>

According to John Fitzgibbon Sr., who was Bill Nelson's attorney and had met the couple during their [[honeymoon]] in Laredo on November 3, the pair claimed to have married in an Egyptian ceremony in either [[Las Vegas]] or [[Phoenix, Arizona|Phoenix]] on November 1, but neither city had records of their marriage.<ref name=":0" /><ref name=":4" /><ref name=":10" /><ref name=":2" /> Acquaintances and co-workers of Bill Nelson described the couple as affectionate, but some voiced suspicions that Omaima had married her husband for his money. An attorney representing Bill Nelson's ex-wife, Kathy Nelson, said that the divorce proceedings had not yet been complete at the time, who, along with the prosecution during her trial, called the validity of their marriage claim into question.<ref name=":2">{{Cite web |last=Weikel |first=Dan |date=1991-12-21 |title=Police Described Bloody Scene Filled With Body Parts |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-12-21-me-689-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> Nelson was separately reported missing by his employer.

== Murder ==
Omaima claimed that on November 28, 1991, Bill had sexually assaulted her in their apartment on Elden Street after she had been tied to a bed during bondage play. Omaima said she broke free of her restraints and hit Bill with a lamp before stabbing him with scissors and beating him with a [[clothes iron]].<ref name="Second-Degree Verdict for Wife in Grisly Murder" /> He was determined to have died of several stab wounds. After killing him, she began dismembering his body, and cooked his head and boiled his hands to remove his fingerprints. She then mixed up his body parts with leftover turkey and disposed of him in a [[Garbage disposal unit|garbage disposal]]. Neighbors claim they heard the disposal unit running for hours after the time of Bill's death.<ref name="Omaima Nelson, Woman Who Killed And Cooked Her Newlywed Husband, Seeks Parole">{{cite news|url=http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/04/omaima-nelson-woman-who-k_n_994906.html |title=Omaima Nelson, Woman Who Killed And Cooked Her Newlywed Husband, Seeks Parole |work=Huffington Post |date=October 4, 2011 |accessdate=October 5, 2013}}</ref><ref name=":7">{{Cite web |last=Weikel |first=Dan |last2=Dizon |first2=Lily |date=1992-12-10 |title=Defendant Describes Abuse : Trial: Omaima Nelson, 24, charged with killing and dismembering her husband, alleges physical and sex attacks by victim as part of her defense. |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1992-12-10-me-2582-story.html |access-date=2024-08-05 |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> She reportedly castrated him in revenge for his alleged sexual assaults. She told her psychiatrist, David Sheffner, that she had cooked her husband's ribs in barbeque sauce and eaten them, but has since consistently denied this. Sheffner later claimed that the 12-hour dismemberment was performed in a "trance-like state" and that her behavior was the result of a [[Psychosis|psychotic]] episode.<ref name="Second-Degree Verdict for Wife in Grisly Murder">{{cite news |last=Lynch |first=Rene |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1993-01-13-mn-1395-story.html |title=Second-Degree Verdict for Wife in Grisly Murder |work=Los Angeles Times |date=January 13, 1993 |access-date=October 9, 2012}}</ref>

Afterwards, she drove through [[Orange County, California|Orange County]] in Nelson's [[Chevrolet Corvette (C3)|1975 corvette]], hoping to convince acquaintances and former boyfriends to help in the disposal of Nelson's body. On December 1, she attempted to enlist the help of Richard Gray in [[Anaheim, California|Anaheim]], but he refused to listen to her story and told her to leave. Gray alerted the authorities, who searched the Nelson residence to discover much of the furniture stained with blood and human flesh haphazardly strewn about the rooms, either wrapped in tinfoil or packed into plastic bags or cardboard boxes. In total, police found eleven containers in the house, as well as a garbage bag in the car, all stuffed with Nelson's remains. Officers also recovered a large soup pot used to cook some of the body parts, a cooler that contained Nelson's severed head, a deep fat fryer containing two hands and a glass jar "with contents" of undisclosed nature.<ref name=":2" /><ref name=":9">{{Cite web |last=Winton |first=Richard |date=2011-10-05 |title=D.A. to fight parole for ex-model who ate husband's body parts |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2011-oct-05-la-me-model-murder-20111005-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> Though Nelson stood 6 feet 4 inches and weighed approximately 230 pounds, police estimated they had found only 100 pounds of human remains. This number was eventually revised to 150 pounds by the coroner's office, but the remaining 80 pounds of body mass, which including Nelson's genitals, were left unaccounted for.<ref name="Second-Degree Verdict for Wife in Grisly Murder" /><ref>{{Cite web |last=Welborn |first=Larry |date=2011-10-06 |title=Woman who dismembered husband denied parole |url=https://www.ocregister.com/2011/10/06/woman-who-dismembered-husband-denied-parole/ |access-date= |website=Orange County Register |language=en-US}}</ref>

A few hours later, in the early morning of December 2, Omaima went to the Monte Vista Avenue house of an acquaintance, 27-year-old Jose Esquivel, and told her that her husband had sexually assaulted her, showing him cuts on her chest, thighs, and feet, as well as ligature markings on her wrists as proof. She then asked him to help in the disposal of Nelson's body, including his entrails and [[dentures]], which she had brought to his doorstep in a garbage bag and wanted to dump into the [[Newport Back Bay|Back Bay]] in [[Newport Beach, California|Newport Beach]]. In exchange she offered him several appliances and the false promise of $75,000 from a safe that really only contained $100. Esquivel told her he accepted and excused himself to get his truck, but instead called the police.<ref>{{Cite web |last=Vermeulen |first=Terri |date=December 3, 1992 |title=Woman offered $75,000 to get rid of lover&#039;s body, friend claims - UPI Archives |url=https://www.upi.com/Archives/1992/12/03/Woman-offered-75000-to-get-rid-of-lovers-body-friend-claims/9815723358800/ |access-date=2024-08-04 |website=UPI |language=en}}</ref> During questioning, she initially claimed that no fight had occurred between her and Nelson after the assault, but that instead "two women and three guys" entered the apartment the same night, drugged her, murdered Nelson and attempted to frame her by planting his dismembered remains when she let a neighbor borrow Nelson's car the next day.<ref name=":10" />

==Trial==
Omaima was arrested on a suspicion of murder charge on December 2, 1991, and her trial began in [[Santa Ana, California|Santa Ana]] almost exactly one year later on December 1, 1992.<ref name="Woman's Trial Begins in Murder, Dismemberment">{{cite news |last=Dizon |first=Lily |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1992-12-01-me-1346-story.html |title=Woman's Trial Begins in Murder, Dismemberment |work=Los Angeles Times |date=December 1, 1992 |access-date=October 9, 2012}}</ref>

During the trial, her attorney Thomas Mooney claimed [[self-defense]] and said that she had undergone [[female genital mutilation]] as a child and that sex was traumatic and painful for her, only increased by the assaults she allegedly sustained during her marriage.<ref name="Omaima Nelson, Woman Who Killed And Cooked Her Newlywed Husband, Seeks Parole"/> It was also claimed that Omaima had experienced [[child abuse]] in Egypt and suffered from [[battered woman syndrome]].<ref name="Woman's Trial Begins in Murder, Dismemberment" /><ref name=":9" /><ref>{{Cite web |last= |date=October 4, 2011 |title=Prosecutor opposes parole of convicted cannibal {{!}} ABC30 Fresno {{!}} abc30.com |url=https://abc30.com/archive/8377439/ |access-date= |website=ABC30 Fresno |language=en}}</ref> Omaima also accused the deceased Nelson of domestic violence and sexual abuse during their three weeks of marriage, claiming she lived in constant fear because Bill threatened her with death or that he would falsely report her to immigration as an illegal alien.<ref name=":7" /> The account was challenged by the prosecution, which had her ex-husband testify that Omaima never made mention of discomfort during sex.<ref name=":3">{{Cite web |date=December 16, 1992 |title=Ex-husband testifies against accused killer - UPI Archives |url=https://www.upi.com/Archives/1992/12/16/Ex-husband-testifies-against-accused-killer/5637724482000/ |access-date=2024-08-04 |website=UPI |language=en}}</ref> Kathy Nelson also took the stand and said that her ex-husband had not been violent during their marriage.<ref name=":5" /> A medical examination conducted in December 1991 showed no signs of physical sexual trauma on Omaima while the pathology report of Bill Nelson revealed that he bore ligature markings on his wrists, indicating that he was tied up shortly before his death.<ref name=":6" /> After the jury deliberated for six days, she was convicted of [[second-degree murder]] on January 12, 1993.<ref name="Second-Degree Verdict for Wife in Grisly Murder"/> She was sentenced to 27 years to [[life in prison]]<ref>{{cite news |last=Lynch |first=Rene |date=March 13, 1993 |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1993-03-13-mn-10362-story.html |title=O.C. Woman Sentenced in Grisly Murder |work=Los Angeles Times}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web |last=Lynch |first=Rene |date=1992-12-11 |title=Butchering of Husband Detailed in Testimony : Trial: Psychiatrist says defendant admitted eating a portion of victim. He said she later denied cannibalism. She says slaying was self-defense. |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1992-12-11-me-1817-story.html |access-date=2024-08-04 |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> and unsuccessfully appealed the verdict in 1995.<ref name=":8" />

== Prison life ==
From 1992 to at least 2011, she was imprisoned at [[Central California Women's Facility]] before being transferred to [[California Institution for Women]]. Throughout her incarceration, she reportedly maintained a number of [[Long-distance relationship|long distance relationships]]. In 2006, Omaima claimed to have become a [[Born again|born-again Christian]]. Around the same time, she gained the rights to conjugal visits with one of her suitors, a man in his 70s who had died by 2011, and stated that they had become married, he latter of which has been denied by prison officials.<ref name=":11">{{Cite web |last=Coker |first=Matt |date=2011-10-06 |title=[UPDATED with Victim's Daughter at Parole Denial:] Omaima Aree Nelson and the Prosecutor Trying to Keep the Model-Cannibal in Prison: Then and Now |url=https://www.ocweekly.com/updated-with-victims-daughter-at-parole-denial-omaima-aree-nelson-and-the-prosecutor-trying-to-keep-the-model-cannibal-in-prison-then-and-now-6460698/ |access-date= |website=OC Weekly |language=en-US}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web |last=Marcum |first=Diana |date=2011-10-06 |title=Parole denied for woman who cooked, ate husband |url=https://www.latimes.com/local/la-xpm-2011-oct-06-la-model-1006-model-murder-20111006-story.html |access-date= |website=Los Angeles Times |language=en-US}}</ref> She also attempted to petition for [[habeas corpus]] twice in 2002 and 2019, but was denied each time by circuit court.<ref>{{Cite news |last=Hong |first=Sandra |date=October 26, 2020 |title=Ninth Circuit: Husband-Slayer Acts Too Late in Seeking Leave to File Second Habeas Petition |work=Metropolitan News-Enterprise |pages=1}}</ref><ref name=":8">{{Cite web |date=2011-10-04 |title=Southern California wife who killed, cooked husband seeks parole |url=https://www.mercurynews.com/2011/10/04/southern-california-wife-who-killed-cooked-husband-seeks-parole/ |access-date=2024-08-05 |website=The Mercury News |language=en-US}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web |date=2024-01-01 |title=Wife who killed, cooked husband denied parole |url=https://www.deseret.com/2011/10/5/20220969/wife-who-killed-cooked-husband-denied-parole/ |access-date=2024-08-05 |website=Deseret News |language=en}}</ref> Her prison record noted her for a number of disciplinary infractions, including fighting, battering a staff member, possession of contraband, theft, arguing, failing to comply with instructions and "not being in compliance with grooming standards".<ref name=":11" /><ref>{{Cite web |last= |first= |date=2011-10-06 |title=California woman who killed, cooked husband denied parole |url=https://www.syracuse.com/news/2011/10/california_woman_who_killed_co_1.html |access-date=2024-09-19 |website=syracuse |language=en}}</ref>

Omaima first became eligible for [[parole]] in 2006, but was denied when "commissioners found her unpredictable and a serious threat to public safety." She became eligible again in 2011, but was denied by the parole board again, citing that she had not taken responsibility for the murder, and would not be a productive citizen if she were freed. She will not be able to seek parole again until 2026.<ref name="Wife who killed, cooked husband denied parole">{{cite news |url=http://www.indianapolisrecorder.com/news/national/article_cb9c4d0c-f0f7-11e0-be90-001cc4c03286.html |title=Wife who killed, cooked husband denied parole |work=Indianapolis Recorder |date=October 7, 2011 |accessdate=October 9, 2012 |archive-date=July 23, 2019 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20190723035815/http://www.indianapolisrecorder.com/news/national/article_cb9c4d0c-f0f7-11e0-be90-001cc4c03286.html |url-status=dead }}</ref>

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[[Category:People convicted of murder by California]]
[[Category:Prisoners sentenced to life imprisonment by California]]
[[Category:Mariticides]]
[[Category:Egyptian Muslims]]
[[Category:20th-century Egyptian women]]
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